The same word “love” in the English language is used for multiple different types of love. When people say I love you, but I am not in love with you, they mean I care deeply about you, but I no longer have a connection.
When I’m having a conversation with somebody, there is one significant thing that gets in the way if I’m not careful. So in a conversation, a problem can occur when I am interacting with somebody and putting across how I feel and what I think about the topic.
Broken trust in a relationship cannot be fixed by confining the problem to the past and moving on. There is no simple way to undo the damage. To commence the process of rebuilding trust the untrustworthy party must show they clearly understand what their partner has felt and experienced.
Every case of broken trust impacts us on three levels, and the damage on each of these levels is what holds us back from healing the broken trust and moving on. It doesn’t matter whether the broken trust is real or perceived; impact occurs on these three levels.
Two types of trust can exist in a relationship
Firstly, there is conditional trust which says I trust you only when I’m having a good experience. Secondly, there is unconditional trust. This type of trust develops in a relationship over time.
The Fourth Horseman is STONEWALLING
Stonewalling occurs when someone completely withdraws from a conflict discussion and no longer responds to their partner.
The Third Horseman is DEFENSIVENESS
Defensiveness is a self-protection mechanism which comes out in the form of moral outrage or evoking a sense of victimhood in an attempt to fend off a perceived attack.
Nobody does anything in this life without starting with expectations about how it should work. When our expectations are not met, even if they are not well defined, we …
We am going to show you how we get stuck in patterns or as people often say get stuck in a rut. Once you understand what we’re about to share you will also start to understand how you can become unstuck.
In a relationship facing difficulties, it is common that each partner believes that the other partner is largely responsible for the issues that they have.
Identifying what it is that you are looking for in your relationship is a good first step because most people don’t do this. While they don’t clearly define their expectations, on some level…
“I love my partner, but I am not in love with them”, is a common statement that relationship specialists hear during their work with couples. What exactly do we mean when we say this?
